DiscoverCreator Science#279: How we navigate our different internal characters (and her experience as a first time author) | Amanda Goetz
#279: How we navigate our different internal characters (and her experience as a first time author) | Amanda Goetz

#279: How we navigate our different internal characters (and her experience as a first time author) | Amanda Goetz

Update: 2025-10-21
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In today's episode, I am speaking with my dear friend Amanda Goetz. Amanda is my favorite kind of person. She works her butt off, but she's also sensitive and introspective. Her perspective on ambition and how to marry it with family life is baked into her new book, called Toxic Grit, How to Have It All and Actually Love What You Have.


Amanda is a two-time founder, four-time CMO, and single mom of three. She inspires over 150,000 people every week through her social insights and weekly newsletter Life's a Game. Previously, Amanda founded House of Wise, the luxury wellness brand giving women permission to make space for better sleep, hotter sex, less stress, and more strength. House of Wise was acquired in 2022, and before that, Amanda spent five years at the Knot Worldwide as Head of Brand Marketing.


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TIMESTAMPS


00:00 Amanda's Inspiring Journey & Book


04:35 Embracing Multifaceted Female Identity


06:30 Rediscovering Authentic Self Needs


11:34 Seeking Validation as a Creator


13:29 Life's a Game Newsletter Launch


18:06 Building a Brand for Publishing


22:39 Industry Feedback and Benchmarks


25:12 First Book Needn't Be Best


29:05 Self-Understanding and Growth Process


31:37 Authenticity and Emotional Maturity


37:00 Authenticity and Creative Energy


40:34 Transitioning to Intimacy Mode


42:57 Mastering Co-Parenting Early


45:23 Trusting Publisher's Title Process


49:05 Focus, Strategy, Connection


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#279: How we navigate our different internal characters (and her experience as a first time author) | Amanda Goetz

#279: How we navigate our different internal characters (and her experience as a first time author) | Amanda Goetz

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